“The nights will soon be drawing in “. We used to be infuriated when spouse’s father used to declare this every 21st June . I have to keep consulting my Eric Ravilous calendar nearly every day to check the date .I need the date more than I have for years. The calendar is more or less empty of appointments, our next memorable date is in August and that is for the MOT on the car . After that comes the Dentist in November .
We have some dates in our mind that don’t need a calendar,
- Sisters 70th birthday in August is the most important
- Daughters birthday in July precedes that but just an ordinary birthday
- Wimbledon ,last week of June and Ist week in July CANCELLED
- Harvest Festival Flower arranging CANCELLED FOR ME ,I’M NOT GOING IN CHURCH THIS YEAR
- Spouse’s birthday 13th September coinciding with the day we pay for our Car Parking space in the local Pub Car Park
I need a calendar because I’m now writing cheques again .I need a calendar because I’m now writing letters again using my fountain pen .
My concept of time has taken a knocking . I explain in detail .
Eldest daughter and family have taken the small allotment next to mine. It is a quarter plot and was left in great condition by the last holder . My daughter has never grown anything before. She planted packets of seeds in the cold greenhouse in January and was delighted with the results.
Her melon seeds astounded me,I never thought they would germinate in the cold , but now she is expecting Watermelons . What were the size of golf balls are now the size of grapefruit. Her onions from seed are as good as mine from sets, and she has got a row of parsnips which none of us manage usually.
She works from the ancient booklet Be your own Vegetable Expert , Bible of the 70s.
She told me yesterday that she was going to grow Leeks now. I helpfully thought it would be better to drive up to Reighton Nurseries together and buy a pot of seedlings , “too late to plant says I “ my timing is quite out . Mr Hessayon has told her to plant for overwintering , in July.
She is right and I am wrong . July is soon ,I’m astounded , I’ve not put my Chrysanth plants in ( from cuttings). My Anxiety Level is high at present , I’m getting strung up about completely unnecessary things. I don’t need Chrysanths, I’m not doing Harvest Festival . It doesn’t matter if my plot is covered in Scarlet Pimpernel . It is delightful , easily removed and deserves its nick name of Poor Mans Weatherglass.
I go to Morning Prayer on Zoom Or Facebook Live every day at present . It is so good to leave our small town too.
RARE RANT
I find this town an insular and parochial place to live . It can be small town minded , always congratulating itself . If I hear another person say Yorkshire is Gods Own County I shall scream . Have people never lived anywhere else or smelled the spliffs at the end of their streets . The smell of Fish and Chips is back and there are socially distanced queues , but underlying anxiety is simmering . We need to be REAL. Golden sands and the Country Park are not the key to successful coping, they are just tools in the life drawer.
Back to Zoom Morning Prayer. It has been the biggest tool in my life drawer. Especially going to Wydale for it. By hearing 27 other people in places like York, Beverley,Winteringham, Bridlington , Scarborough and Kirby Misperton, Share and pray each day has raised my game. Wonderful though it is, my allotment can’t completely satisfy. It’s ok not to be ok , and sharing in a trusted and confidential environment and giving everything to our Creator has kept me on track as I stumble through the calendar months.
Right now Rotherham gets my praise as a good place to live , as it has wilded its road verges and brought the bees to town .
Memorable date Longest Day 21st June 2020 R.I P Win
Memorable date Longest Day 21st June 2020 R.I P Win
