St Martins School in Scarborough. We're quite stressed at the whole thing. We want to support our 5yr old grandson, but the stress is not to do with the actual lunch but to do with the parking in Holbeck. Spouse and I have been told to be there for 11.30, (pre-dinner drinks you might think), but a note in Book Bag of small child informs that grandparents of younger children need to arrive early. It is already pouring with rain. The car -parking on the road near the school holds few cars, the public car park on the cliff top is delightful but not only exposed but at the foot of a hill which troubles those who have had heart attacks. Last Friday evening the walk to get small boy in Pouring rain , Too High Wind, No car-parking near school, resulted in me being so soaked that I had to have a bath when I got home to Filey. So we are stressed again today. BUT its not windy, so maybe umbrellas may be used. I will drop Grandpa at the top of the hill first, then go back and park.
Now that narrative stressed me out just writing it, and yet on a scale of what stresses most people on a scale of 1-10 , (10 being lots of stress ) the journey for most would only have a stress factor of 2. It is 10 for us. You don't know all the contributing factors, or variables that would add into the maths.
- I am a reluctant driver when accompanied by spouse
- I hate spouse telling me where there,s an easy spot
- the weather
- the timing for arrival (Time has become of Stroke inflicted importance with us)
- I am sole driver since spouse had his stroke
- Scarborough is very hilly if you are us
- there is nowhere to hang wet coats for grandparents at St Ms
Writing a Post for me is 2 on a stress scale. I worry that I have spelled the words correctly, and that my children will not be cross.I am always editing the spelling, the punctuation and the Grammar. I don't want any child that I have ever taught to realise that I am not a perfect technician when it comes to the English Language.
For me the stress in Blogging is when one realises that interacting in the Cyberworld is as difficult as interacting in the Real World. For the first 3 years of writing this blog I never read the blogs of anyone else. No one read my blog, as far as I knew, no one commented much , apart from my sister .I had no idea that the blogsphere existed.
When I joined our Parish Website Team, and the Filey Parish Blog was born I suddenly became part of a networking cyberworld. We in our Parish Blog team were so delighted when Rev Tim Norwood became our first follower.His blog had been our inspiration for the Parish Blog, as Simon Rudiger knew him from Milton Keynes. Now Tim is so busy being a Priest and Father he doesn't do his wonderful blog any more. I see what he is doing from Facebook and Twitter, and thank God for him. No stress here at all. He continues as a follower of the Parish Blog. (Thanks Tim). And here comes the STRESS. In the Cyberworld of Blogging some people are so keen to get their blogs read by the world and their wives that the object of blogging appears to be TO GET KNOWN.I was so upset when Bishop Alan removed us from his blogroll.
My ego was raised so much when I was blogrolled that I was in danger of CROWD PLEASING to get read.
- I dont want to be famous
- I think my blog is great
- I think Samsons blog is even better
- I dont want to be a Women anything, I want to be me
- I want lots of followers
- I want my children to let me write about them
- I want to be rich enough to buy fillet steak once a week
- I want an easy parking space very close to St Martins, and not to have to sit on a baby chair